Wow it's been awhile!

I didn't realize it had been so long since I posted anything geez.Shannon has been on vacation for two weeks and things have been busy but fun!His vacation ends tonight and just the other day we found out they had another layoff at his job so that means no days off for the guys left.I can't complain I'm thankfull he still has a job.There is a chance he could be going out of town two weeks at a time soooo not looking forward to that ugh!!

We got T a car while he was off.That hit me a bit harder than I thought...they are getting so big I'm not sure how we got here so fast!

The kids started school and things have been busy with that.T's in band for the HS, J will play football for the JH and K will be playing basketball busy busy stuff!

We met the 'brat' during this vacation.It was a blast....I already miss her like crazy! I was on my best behavior and she was a total brat of course.No just kidding!I Can't wait to do it again.Maybe next year we can make it to her part of the world.

No DD stuff this although lots has been going on...maybe I'll post about it later I'm too tired tonight.

meeting a friend!

I have been busy doing lots of cleaning and getting ready for school still.I went to get J drug tested and the lady in the office was rude.I walked out.If they want me to take time out of my schedule before school actually starts to do something that makes it easier for them, I suggest they learn how to treat people.Ugh!!! I will stop there lol! Anyway I will finish up school clothes shopping tomorrow woohoo then we will be all set.

It's countdown time!!! I have one week left till I meet 'the brat' I can't wait! We have no major plans, we are flying by the seat of our pants...it will be a blast no matter what I just know it! K and her little girl have been talking on the phone so I know K is just as excited as I am,it's all she talks about.Shannon on the other hand I'm pretty sure he is getting worried.He has this crazy idea that we might pull a prank on him.Like we would even think such a thing humf! I would usually be a ball of nerves being that we have never met face to face,but I'm not I feel as though we have known each other for years.

Not much going on here otherwise.My butt is getting a break after Shannon was home for three days(it wasn't all bad{wink})

Misty

Where did the summer go?

Man this summer is flying by! It doesn't help that school is starting almost a week ealier than I thought.I should pay more attention lol! That means lots of school clothes shopping ugh!The two little ones aren't so bad,but T is way difficult! Gotta love teens.She's a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl(wonder where she gets that from)but I want her to have cute t-shirts at least.Hopefully she will be set before school starts lol! I was really hoping to home school this year...so I'm a bit bummed.We decided with the economy and lack of job security it was better to hold off.Shannon also wants to give J a chance in the new jr.high/high school first.All I can hope is the change is what he needs.The 6th grade also got moved up this year...not so comfortable with that.I think the kids are a bit to young to be thrown in with the older kids and all that comes with that.We will see it will be a year full of changes that's for sure!

We found out recently some friends of ours are getting divorced.They have been a couple since high school and have two kiddos....so sad. I have spoke with the wife a few times and she is clearly devastated.It's tough I just don't really know what to say.

Two in a row..wow!

No not two spankings in a row,two post lol!

Shannon and I had an interesting talk yesterday.We were actually talking about another couple were the guy brought DD to the women and now they are struggling a bit.Shannon and I like to say we stumbled onto DD together.Many moons ago when we were married about 6 months or so Shannon spanked for the first time.I was shocked to say the least and I did pack my bags.Mostly because at the time I didn't know what else to do,but I never felt like it was some big terrible thing he had done.I knew almost instantly that it worked...as for why it works, I still don't know to this day lol!I have always kinda dealt with it by saying it works for US and leaving it at that.Over the last couple years I have started to have this battle within myself of hating the fact that I do need this.

To make a long story short during our talk yesterday Shannon was saying that we both know I'm wired for this and if I would just own that it would make things much easier.I totally agree with him, in a way we are lucky in the fact that we are both wired so there shouldn't be as much insecurity with it.....not always the case though.I'm going to do my best to just be honest with myself and him about my needs.He however came up with something he would like for me to do.Twice a month I have to ask for a spanking one can be simple and for anything I want and the other has to be on the serious side.The good part is I can let him know by text or a note on his pillow.I don't actuslly have to say the words phew! Not doing this twice a month will be punishable though YIKES! I'm still not sure how I will ever be able to do this but I'm going to try real hard.

Now I need a recording that says 'you can do this'lol!
Misty