It seems like a good place to start

I wasn't going to start this off with a DD post,but it seems to fit.

Shannon and I aren't new to DD.It started about 6 months after we were married before we knew it had a name or that others actually did it.It's changed many times over the years as we changed and as our relationship grew.

Recently we took a break... actually I prefer to say a step back so we could see things more clearly.We have had a bit of a tough time the last two years and it was definantly time to put that behind us and move forward.We had been trying,but it's like writing an essay and trying to find the right words...after you have erased and started over on the same piece of paper it becomes a bit messy.Sometimes it's better to just get a new piece of paper.

I was pretty worried about the break and what it might do to our marriage.I thought maybe we would be making things worse.I was wrong.The break gave us what we needed and now we are ready to move forward.The one thing we did realize during our break is that we need DD,he needs it,I need it,our marriage needs it.We just need it differently now due to some change and growth in our relationship.

So yesterday we sent the kiddos to the pool for a few hours.It gave us time to talk,take care of a spanking,and cuddle.I really don't think I could describe the spanking if I tried.It was so many things in one...most of all perfect!


New start...new blog..it fit right?

just checking!

Hmmm does it work?