My guy is home!!!!

I'm so totally happy!! Shannon came home yesterday and he took me out on a nice date.He was supose be gone 4 days but that turned into a full week!I was unprepared lol!We had a great time together just catching up and some chit chat.He had already mentioned giving me a spanking just for connection and some maintenance.With his new work schedule he's been doing alot of morning spankings which I don't really care for...there isn't enough coffee to prepare for that lol!Anyway last night on our way home from our date he says I'm gonna spank you tonight because I need to be at work early and I don't wanna rush things in the morning.I was shocked but I saw his point and besides did I mention I don't like morning spankings;)So he goes to 'our' spot,well one of them the other is the lake.He gets the spanking going telling me he was glad that I was good while he was gone and how happy he was that the spanking wasn't a punishment.Then he starts teasing me about how virgin my bottom got in just one week lol! He was totally in to this spanking and I had to remind him a few times that I was attached to the bottom he was spanking!It was nice though and it served it's purpose.He did throw me a twist near the end.I said in my earlier post that we were no longer 'working' on my smoking and that took alot of convincing to get him to agree to.I have kinda felt like he wasn't totally on board with it but he's kept his comments to a minimal.Until yesterday while he was spanking at which point he says now that I have your attention I want to talk to you about something.I won't harp on it cause I said I wouldn't but you haven't done so good with your cigarettes and June 1st is right around the corner so I need you to work harder on that.He gave some really ouchie swats to make his point and then winded things down.I know he's right I do need to work harder on it.I've sorta went crazy since we agreed it was off the table and I'm only hurting myself by doing that.Anyway heading out to catch a lunch date my my guy yippee!!!!

Ok we will just say I suck at blogging and move on :)

I won't make excuses or say I will do better...cause well that's probably not true lol!

We have had alot of company the past few months.My sister came up for a week and that was fun.We discuss that it will probably be the last year we do spring break together because the kids are getting older and it's just hard.They all have their things they are into and the two older kids will have jobs soon.We will still visit each other when we can though.

My good friend,Katia(a fellow DD'er) came to visit us...it was a blast and thanks to the Oklahoma weather we actually got a couple extra days together.Of course we were angels the entire time!!!! Ok maybe not the entire time;) We tried real hard so that's gotta count for something right?

My cousin and friend came down about a week ago.We weren't really expecting them to come till last minute so we didn't have much planned but it was still fun.

We are trying to plan a trip to Branson soon.I'm not sure how easy that will be considering they tok Shannon's days off away and his hours have really been slim.I'm enjoying him being home on a more regular basis though.

The kids school years in coming to a close soon...where did the year go? J is finishing up track,which he totally loves! I never really pictured him as a track kid,but I'm so glad he is enjoying it.K is trying to decide between softball and cheerleading.I would like to see her do softball I think she would be great at it but I think her hearts in cheer.I'll support her either way.I'm trying to get T to play softball as well it's not looking so good but I'll keep my fingers crossed :)

I was hoping next time I posted I would have quit smoking but no such luck.UGH! We are not making it a DD issue at the moment thank goodness!! We will start again June 1st.I needed a break. It just became this nasty issue between Shannon and I.It was like everything was going so wonderful but then there was the smoking issue.I needed the big nasty cloud NOT hanging over my head for a bit.He wasn't to comfy with the idea and it took lots of talking,but eventually he got where I was coming from.He's really hateing it though I can tell.People that smoke get it a tad better than those who don't.I use my smokes for everything if I'm tired,hungry,upset,sick....whatever so it's tough to let them go.I know that I should though and yes I know all the nasty stuff associated with it;) My job now is to get to that place of really wanting to quit by June 1st.That's all I'll say about that for now.

I'm getting ready to start my garden which I'm totally excited about and if the weather would work with me a bit I'd have already started lol!I have also finally got all the rescue dogs a good home and now we are down to just 'ours' I can't tell you how nice that is.It's time to get busy with some spring cleaning! This would be a good week for it because Shannon's out of town for a few days,but the kids have tons going on and the weather sucks.