Ups and downs

Marriage is not without it's ups and downs and we had a down for sure.Not anything I care to talk about.I will say that I'm shocked sometimes by how we deal with downs the longer we are married.I can remember many moons ago when we'd go days without speaking because one of us said something to hurt the others feelings.I think about what a waste of time that was lol!That's not to say things are always peachy but we can at least carry on like two adults during our downs and I like that.I like that even during a down time we are still a team.I don't know I guess these kind of things are reassuring to me.

Shannon decided a reconnection was in order.I was really needing that when he first announced it but givin the circumstances we decided to wait a few days.By the time we got around to it I wasn't feeling all that disconnected but I could tell he still very much needed the spanking to happen so I didn't fuss....well not until it started anyway lol! Shannon had cut his finger while we were doing our flower bed and it opened up again while he was spanking and wouldn't stop bleeding.He decided to use the american tawse rather than bleed all over me;)

I swear the longer we own that thing the worse it gets!!! After just a few swats I was like ok wait! Stop!That thing is broke! He was like what do you mean broke? Like it hurts way worse than normal its all flappy.He laughs and says flappy? You mean it's broke in? Yea whatever it's broke! He pretty much ignored me and my pleas after that lol! Then later he's talking to me and ask his question "why do we do this,Misty?" Ummm because when your not actually DOING it it somehow seems like a good idea.He laughed at me and said no I can't accept that I need another answer.I finally gave him the answer he would accept but just between us.......the first answer WAS true lol!

We had a great weekend together.Shannon actually got some much needed time off.The kids kept us crazy busy with all their plans but all in all it was fun.I got some pretty flowers for Mother's day and a few homemade posters and such that I loved!!!

This is the last full week of school left and no doubt it will be a busy one it always is!J is doing some extra tutoring to be sure his grades are all good.I'm proud of him for even thinking of it,he's definantly matured this year.K ended up choosing cheer rather than softball.I'm not suprised lol! She will be working her butt off to try an make the team.I so hope she does because she will be so disappointed if not and I don't want that.T seems to have all her ducks in a row and ready to finish out the school year.

Hope everyone had a wonderful Mother's day!!!